Responisibility of your Life
To blame life or others for what you consider failures in your life is to delude yourself of what you yourself have CHOSEN to create and experience through FREEWILL.
Circumstances are CREATED based on where you hold your focus and your BELIEF in those thoughts be this subconcious or concious. Focus your awareness on that which you wish to experience…manifest but take full responsibility in what you choose to spend your creative energy on. There is no experience in your life that you did not create or attract.CHANGE happens WITHIN yourself and manifestst into your outside world